Sex, Love, and Power Spell

The biggest problem for people who desperately want a relationship is their desperation. Desperation repels love with a ferocity and saturates everything a person says and does despite what they may believe. It is like a stench that cannot be removed and forms a bubble around the desperate person, blocking them from what they desire most - committment, companionship and most of all love and affection. The only way to turn such a trainwreck around is through POWER. POWER destroys desperation as it gives you the options, no longer a beggar, you are the chooser. Who has "the upperhand" in relationships is very often decided naturally in the dynamic between two people - it begins at the very start. Contrary to popular opinion it is not always the more attractive partner. I've known many beauties at the mercy of someone who would be classically thought to be not much to write home about. POWER is in the hands of the one who is capable of walking away. There is always one partner who would choose "Stay" rather than "Go" in nearly every single scenario. This is the same partner who is more forgiving and makes excuses for the bad behavior of their love. This is not a warm hearted person but one without a BACK BONE. The person capable of walking away may not have a swarm of options but they believe they do and that belief is what guarantees they can whoever they do decide they want.

OK, you say, fine, I understand. But you are not one of those people with high self-esteem. Childhood issues, personal problems, hurts and doubts, have all claimed your pride through the years. SO GET IT BACK!

Here is a powerful spell which should be performed before doing a love spell of any kind. It is extremely useful for someone who's life has been plagued with relationship problems and now is very timid or paranoid in relationships, has been victim to abusive partners or traumatizing events such divorce. Basically it is good for anyone who's lost their self-esteem and is now desperate for love. Desperation does nothing but encourage more loneliness, abuse, and sadness.

Ingredients

penis or vagina candle depending on your sex

high the conqueror oil

queen elizabeth powder

sea salt

mustard seed

salt water

a lemon

bundle of sage

spray bottle

your own sexual fluids

a knife

your blood (to women: menstrual blood is great here!)

Doing the Job

This spell requires candle magick and creating a spiritual body purifying spray.

First create the spray by putting saltwater and a couple squeezes of lemon in a spray bottle. Spray your body thoroughly. Then smudge yourself with the sage. All the while visualize the many hurts, insecurities, and pains which make you insecure/desperate falling away.

Next, the candle magick. Etch your full name on the candle in a staircase fashion going upwards. Dress the candle in High John oil, your blood, and menstrual fluids. Then dust with Queen Elizabeth root. The masculine High John and feminine Queen Elizabeth serve to enhance the power of both your ying and yang. Your DNA and name serve to identify yourself to the spirits and gods/goddesses you are petitioning for the enhancement of you power.

In the middle of your altar place the candle. With the mustard seeds and sea salt create a ring around the candle. These are protective herbs which will protect you from further pain and anguish so that your petition for more power can safely grow and thus you can too!